Boudoir Myths, Busted: What You Think You Know (But Don’t)
So, you’ve heard whispers about boudoir photography... sultry photos, lacy lingerie, maybe even a wind machine or two. But before you go spiraling into the “that’s not for me” rabbit hole, let’s set the record straight.
Here are the most common boudoir myths—and why they deserve a one-way ticket to the trash.
Myth #1: You have to be a size 2 to do boudoir
Reality check: Confidence isn’t one-size-fits-all. Boudoir has zero interest in your dress size. Curvy, petite, tall, short, somewhere in between—we’re all deliciously human. Photographers like us know how to light, pose, and hype you up so your favorite self shines through. No crash diets or Photoshop magic required.
Myth #2: It’s just for your partner
Hold up—what about YOU?
Sure, your partner might get weak in the knees when they see the final photos. But spoiler alert: most people book boudoir for themselves. You get to feel like a rockstar, goddess, vixen, or total boss (or all of the above). Who says self-love can’t come with smoky eyes and killer lighting?
Myth #3: You have to get naked
Nope. Not unless you want to.
You can wear lingerie, a cozy sweater, a robe, your favorite band tee, or even a leather jacket and jeans. Boudoir isn’t about how little you wear—it’s about how you feel in it. Sexy is a vibe, not a dress code.
Myth #4: It’s kinda sleazy, right?
Only if you confuse “confident” with “cringe.”
Boudoir is art, baby. Think soft light, killer poses, and that “I woke up like this (but better)” energy. It’s classy, tasteful, and 100% about empowerment—not some awkward 90s calendar shoot you saw in your uncle’s garage.
Myth #5: You need to know how to pose like a pro
Please. That’s our job.
If you’ve never smized (smiled with your eyes) in your life, don’t stress. We will guide you through every pose, from “soft and dreamy” to “I run the world.” You just bring the attitude (and maybe a playlist that makes you feel unstoppable).
Myth #6: Boudoir is just a passing trend
Nope, it’s a full-blown movement.
Boudoir is here to stay—and thank goodness. It’s become a celebration of body positivity, self-confidence, and stepping into your power. Whether you’re turning 30, 40, 50, getting married, hitting a goal, or just saying “I’m fabulous,” boudoir is the mic drop moment you didn’t know you needed.
So, should you do a boudoir shoot?
If you’ve ever wanted to feel like the main character in a movie where you strut down a hallway in slow motion—then yes. Yes, you should.
You don’t need to lose weight, buy a whole new wardrobe, or wait for some “perfect” time. You are already worthy. Already beautiful. Already boudoir material.