The Art of Reconnection: Love, Marriage, and the Power of Boudoir
Marriage is an incredible journey—one that ebbs and flows with time. As we approach our 23rd wedding anniversary this summer, we’ve had plenty of moments that felt straight out of a love story, and others that took patience, forgiveness, and a whole lot of intention to get through. Long-term love isn’t always effortless—it’s built in the day-to-day decisions, the little acts of connection, and the willingness to grow both individually and together.
And while the foundation of our marriage has always been strong, like any relationship, it has needed a little spark from time to time.
(An image from our 2002 wedding l by Picture This of CT)
Over the years, boudoir photography has been one of the most unexpected yet powerful ways we’ve reignited that spark. These experiences have allowed us to reconnect in deeper, more intimate ways—to see each other through a lens of confidence, beauty, and raw vulnerability. Boudoir gave us permission to feel sexy, empowered, and desirable—not just for each other, but for ourselves. It reminded us that passion isn’t just something you have in the early years; it’s something you can keep alive and evolving, no matter how long you’ve been together.
It’s stepping into your power, letting go of insecurities, and embracing your authentic self.
(One of our favorite images from our first couples boudoir session for our 7th anniversary by Raw Photography in CT)
What makes boudoir so special isn’t just the final product—it’s the transformation that happens during the session. It’s stepping into your power, letting go of insecurities, and embracing your authentic self.
Whether you're booking a session for yourself, surprising your partner, or doing it together as a couple, boudoir is about connection, confidence, and celebration. And that feeling? It lingers long after the camera stops clicking. It becomes part of how you carry yourself, how you see each other, and how you nurture that fire between you.
So if you’re feeling curious—or maybe a little nervous—that’s okay. We’ve been there too.
(A lifestyle boudoir image taken of us in 2023 in the comfort of our home by our awesome photographer and friend Kate Russo)
But if you're looking for a way to reconnect, rediscover your own beauty, or add a bold new chapter to your love story, we wholeheartedly encourage you to take the leap. Boudoir isn't just a photoshoot. It's an experience. And for us, it’s been one of the most empowering, passion-sparking choices we’ve made in our journey together.
Read our reviews for more powerful testimonials like ours or check out our ‘How Does It Work’ page to learn more about the boudoir experience with Sunshine Boudoir, from initial consultation, to delivering your images safely and securely to you.